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If we know so little about life, what can we know about death? If he himself is straight, everything will be done without orders. But if he is not straight, they will not obey, even if they are ordered to. A noble husband must beware of three things in his life: in youth, when vitality is abundant, beware of infatuation with women; in maturity, when vitality is strong, beware of rivalry; in old age, when vitality is meager, beware of avarice.