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Boi was not devoid of desires, yet, following purity, brought himself to a starving death. Zhan Ji was not deprived of passions, but, boasting of chastity, doomed himself to loneliness, not prolonging his lineage. If you live - then give yourself to life and endure it, and in anticipation of death experience all her desires.